Apni Shadi Ko Hamesa Barkarar Kaise Rakhe ?

Apni Shadi Ko Hamesa Barkarar Kaise Rakhe ?
Kuch rasmay , saath fere , saat wachan or ek bandhan , wo bhi life-time ka . Shadi ko lekar har kisi ki apni requirement or expectation hoti hai , kuch puri hoti hai , to kuch nahi bhi . 100% satisfaction to hume kisi bhi relation me nahi milti , lekin kya hum un relation ko todne ka decision itni aasani se le lete hai , jitni aasani se aaj hum shadi ko todne ka desision lene lage hai ?

kyoki ish relation se bahar aane ka ek option hame nazar aata hai divorce (talaak) ke roop me , to fir problem kitni hi mamuli kyo na ho , hum samjhota nahi karte , Divorce ke mamle din-ba-din badhte ja rahe hai . shadi ko bachane ke upay Hindi me, Apni Shadi ko kaise bachaye

Yaha hum un case ka jikra nahi kar rahe , jaha divorce lena hi ek-matra rasta reh jata hai , lekin jaha jaha shadi ko bachaye rakhne ke liye kai raste khule hote hai , wahi bhi hamari koshis kam hi hoti hai usay bachane ki . Pehle mana jata tha ki shadi life-time ka saath hai , lekin aab ek life bhi bitana muskil ho raha hai , kyoki marriage forever ka concept hi hum bhool chuke hai , kya bajah hai ki aisa ho raha hai ?

Relation nibhana or ussay related responsibility puri karna aajkal ke couples ko bojh lagta hai . Unhe lagta hai ki hum kyo samnewale ke anusar apni jindagi jiye , hum kyo adjust kare .... etc.  Jab relation me ish tarah ke idea aane lagte hai , usay todne ke raste hame jyada aasani se nazar aane lagte hai .

• Shadi ek bandhan or ek responsibility hai . KOi chahe ya na chahe , isme sacrifice , dedication karna hi padta hai , lekin ish tarah ki emotions or baate hame outdated lagti hai . Hum aab relationship me bhi practical hote ja rahe hai .


• Couples aajkal apne EGO ko apne risto se bhi bada mante hai . Husband-wife dono me se koi bhi jhukne ko taiyar nahi hota . Aapsi conflict badne ke saath-saath manmutaw bhi badta jata hai or result ye hota hai - Risto ka end .


• Aajkal log shadi to karte hai , lekin kai condition ke saath or jaha kahi bhi unhe lagta hai ki unki freedom ya lifestyle me unki shadi ek baidi ye bandhan ban rahi hai , wahi usay todne ka decision aasani se le lete hai .


• Ladkiya bhi self-dependent ho rahi hai , jis wajah se wo koi bhi decision lene se hichkichati nahi .


• Gharwalo ka support bhi aab unhe milta hai , pehle jaha unhe rishte banaye rakhne ki koshis karne se related kai tarah ki sikh or nasihate di jati thi , wahi aab samjhota karne ki baat samjhai jati hai .


• Halaki jaha baat ladki ye ladke ke self-respect or astitwa ki raksha se judi ho or jaha soshan (exploitation) ho raha ho , to vah shadi forever ka concept bhoolna hi padta hai , lekin yaha hum un choti-choti baato ka jikra kar rahe hai , jinhe bada mudda banakar shadi jaise important bandhan ko todne ka silsila badh raha hai .

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• Choti-choti takrar bhi hame itni hurt karti hai ki hum usay apne self-respect se jodne lagte hai  . sahanshilta (tolerance) aab logo me bahut kam ho gai hai , yah bhi ek badi wajah hai ki relation puri life nahi tikte or jaldi toot jate hai .


• Wahi dushro aur rishta banaye rakhne or usme bane rehne ke liye , sare samjhote karne ki apeksha aab bhi mahilao se hi ki jati hai . Waqt or dour jab badal raha hai , to expectation ke diyre me purusho ko bhi lana hi hoge . Relationship banaye rakhne ki responsibility jiyni mahilao ki hota hai , utni hi purusho ki bhi hoti hai , Ish conversation ko aab tak badalne ki disha me koi sarthak effort bhi nahi kiya gaye


• Shadi jaise rishto ko aajka ki generation bahut casually leti hai . Yadi iske prati thoda respect or gambhirta dikhanye to rishte ki majboti badegi . Samay or samaj me badlaw ke saath-saath rishto ke mayne bhi badal rahe hai , lekin iska yah arth nahi hona chahiye ki hum rishto ko itne halke me le ki unhe easily tood sake .

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• Shadi jaise rishto ko prati thodi seriousness or respect rakhna behad jaruri hai .


• Apne rishto ko or apne partner ko casually na le .


• Choti-choti baato ko bade jhagde me na badle , sahan karne , adjust karne har rishto ki maang hoti hai . Isaay aapne EGO se jodkar na dekhe .


• Anpe dimag me rishta todne jaise vichar na laye , aapas me behas ke doran bhi ish tarah ki baate muh se na nikale .


• Kinhi muddo ya baato par maan-mutaw ho to baatchit hi pehla rasta hai vivado ko suljhane ka .


• Pahal karne se koi bhi chota nahi hota , rishto ko bachane me agar aapki pahal kaam aa sakti hai , to apne jhothe dambh ke khatir pahal karne se piche na hate . Alag hone ke baad bhi life aasan nahi hoti , gambhirta se har pehlu par vichar kare .


• Maaf karna sikhay or sorry bolna bhi .


• Apne partner ki respect kare . Emotionally roop se yadi aapse koi juda hai , to usay jitna bhi ho sake , hurt ya dukhi karne se bache . Aapas me ek dushre ke prati samman to har rishto ki jarurat hoti hai .


• Aajkal choti-choti baato par rishta todne ka jo trend ban gaya hai , uske result behad ghatak ho sakte hai . Kam umra me hi tanaw , akelapan , depression ya unhealthy liye style ka sikar hokar apni hi jindagi ko log bahut difficult bana lete hai .


• Is baat ka dhyan rakhne behad jaruri hai ki rishto or physical chijo me bahut fark hota hai . Rishto ko kapdo ya gadiyo ki tarah bar-bar badalkar sakun nahi mil sakta . Rishto me emotions hoti hai or koi kitna bhi practical


• kyo na ho jaye , rishta tootne par hurt hota hi hai . Jab emotion hurt hoti hai , to jindagi jindagi bahut muskil ho jati hai.